Heartbreaking and tragic. 13 Reasons Why tackles youth bullying and suicide

Probably about once a decade we get a movie or show that completely stands a lone in terms of emotional content. Most series or movies have a few moments that are either gruesome or they leave in a seemingly impossible scenario. Most movies and TV over exaggerate death and even life itself. Very few even try and tackle some darker and deeper themes and when most do it is done incorrectly. One show has now changed the complete way in which stories can be told. Thirteen Reasons Why incorporated life, love, bullying, obession, secrets, lies, sex, partying, rape and even suicide into a little over 14 hours of story telling and it sure was an emotional rollercoaster as can be expected. 

Within minutes of the series starting we already knew the outcome for Hannah Baker and we knew it was not going to be a good one or an easy one to handle. That itself creates a very knowingly emotional season finale while creating a mystery cloud around why. Within minutes of the series we knew that Hannah Baker the main protagonist of a new series we were watching takes her own life and we know that 13 people helped cause that in various forms. Thirteen Reasons Why immediately made us feel sad and that was the purpose but quickly through the flashbacks we learn it was a series of events for Hannah Baker that would either be wrong place wrong time or purely an outsider creating a world of pain for Hannah. 

As we learn with Hannah taking your life is rarely ever a spur of the moment decision. It is a decision made over time when things begin to turn completely inversed to the point that the reality you once knew is now a dark place filling your head with the scenarios you wish you could take back. Suicide is devastaingly permanent and changes the life of everyone around you forever. Suicide is something we collectively need to start taking more seriously. Depression, bullying, secrets, lies, Rape and emotional manipulation are all things we as people need to begin to try and understand by speaking with those affected by it and not judge them. 

Thirteen Reasons Why spends a lot of the series detailing the people and scenarios that are leading to the heartbreaking season finale but even though we know the outcome we still hold onto the hope that somehow Hannah was not dead and the tapes were just a cry for attention. However just like life the show has a very intense way of reminding us that just when we are beginning to accept the things we cannot change we finally have the ability to fully comprehend why they are even happening in the first place. 

It was not until the episode that was centered around Justin for the second time and then Clay Jensen that definitely sealed why Hannah did what she did. Justin held onto a secret to keep his friend safe and Clay was afraid to love someone who had a reputation. Which leads me to the cast. Katherine Langford and Dylan Minnette have incredibly chemistry as Hannah and Clay. Minnnete’s Clay was quiet, reserved and introverted. Hannah was always mysterious, confident and definitely quirky. Clay and Hannah were just two people afraid of the world who could have been great together but just did not have the confidence to make it work. Langford and Minnette definitely helped propel the story forward and a long with the rest of the cast helped bring to life a story that perhaps is more culturally relevant than ever. 

As a father of a beautiful 1 year old girl who is my entire world this show was the first show ever in my days of watching TV that actually broke me. It had me balling my eyes out more than once and understandbly so. There were two scenes in particular that broke my heart as a father. Those two scenes were Hannah Bakers rape and suicide. Langford’s look of hopelesness and lonliness during the rape scene was too much. It was never quite clear what to expect from the episode where we see the final moments of Hannahs life. The scene where Hannah steals the razor blades from her parents pharmacy is hard enough but it does not stop there and the show does not shy away from showing it. Again Langfords frantic and lonely look are what create an emotion so overwhelming that the natural reaction is merely to react emotionally. However I knew the scene and the outcome of the season but seeing Katherine Langford act out that scene was too much. When she slips in the tub I still had my eyes on the screen but it is the moment when the blood starts gushing that I could no longer watch. Never in the time that I have been watching movies and shows has any show been so emotionally debilitating that I simply closes my eyes, paused the show and I simply wept uncontrollably at 145 am in my living room. Perhaps it was being a father that made me feel for Hannah Baker. Perhaps it was knowing that people can make others feel that horribly about themselves. Its a shame that women everywhere are made to feel the way Hannah felt in Thirteen Reasons Why. The show is about Hannah Baker and the people that lead her to make that choice but the show is meant to show us that there are people everywhere like Hannah who feel they have lost their mind, spirit and body and the only way out to is to take their own life.

 It’s a message to all of us watching to please be more perceptive of the people who are around us everyday and to acknowledge our feelings even when we are scared to do it. Its a message to all of us watching to be closer to the ones we love and embrace them when they are struggling. We should never shy away from telling someone we love them. We should never take someones soul from them. We are humans and built on emotions much stronger than any other life form can comprehend and yet we choose to use it to manipulate people. I just want to know the world is not capable of the things depicted in Thirteen Reasons Why but I already know they are because of the way the show made me feel.
Netflix you have created the most culturally relevant show in years. I definitely feel this needs to be shown and discussed within schools. This show is scripted but this stuff really happens and until it stops we cannot be afraid to discuss it and help those in need. We need to find a way to stop this in the real world and make sure our loved ones never feel a lone. Lonliness is a hard place to escape from. My daughter is my reason for life. Please find yours. In all seriousness to anyone feeling like taking their own life please reach out. Dont wait. 

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It’s Morphin time! 

Improvement is something we all strive for. We never want to stay at the same level. Progression, change, challenge are three keys to making something that was once viewed as dull and boring exciting again. Most 90’s kids know of the Power Rangers. As I kid I had action figures, posters, pyjamas and everything imaginable. However as every kid does I began to notice the extreme cliches and the downward spiral of a once beloved classic. Power Rangers has not been relevant since the late 90’s and it really is about time that we are once again talking about this series. 

Power Rangers has always been a well designed story about team building and communication. It at times was bogged down by the one dimensional dialogue and absolute cheesefest that were so called action scenes. It became a joke of sorts as the series progressed and it was a damn shame. At the core of the Power Rangers was a sincere message that should have been heard and deserved to be heard. 

Before news of this film entering production the most relevant thing to Power Rangers since 1998 was a fan made film starring Katee Sackhoff. The word relevant is only used because at first it was a Power Rangers related film and then it wasnt because it was not approved by the big wigs. Whatever the final decision was on that it was still for a brief moment something that was cool and refreshing that carried the name of something so nostalgic to many. Flash foward (Still mad ABC) to mid 2016 and we begin seeing casting photos and set pieces and hope rises again that the Power Rangers can once again be household names. 

That brings me to April 2nd, 2017. With a new Power Rangers film in cinemas I decided it would be a cool film to check out for old times sake. The film begins and immediately as the action tone is set and the experience is beginning there is an immediate connection to one element that definitely has been missing from the Power Rangers and that is dimensional and realistic characters. We can always suspend belief and go on a journey with the characters as long as we care about them. Billy Cranston was immediately that character in this film. It was the bold new take on a Power Rangers character, creating him to be openly autistic. That made it seem so much more down to earth and realistic. A kid like Billy Cranston would be the one to come across a 65 million year old alien war ship that allows him to be a superhero. It never felt like a stretch at all and the amounts of humour from Billy are what kept the film moving forward. Jason Scott and Kimberly Hart were the worst characterized of the new Rangers. The golden boy turned bad boy and the mean girl need to find their inner beautiful and redeeming qualities to save the small town they hate so much but obviously love to hate. Its typical teenage character stereotypes and it almost sets the movie back. 

Rita Repulsa was a good villain. I am not sure chomping down on a gold necklace is how I choose to spend my lunch breaks but then again I dont really want to unleash hell on the world either so that makes us different. All jokes aside Elizabeth Banks did a great job. She was menacing especially during the fight scenes and the one v one with Trini in her home. She was creepy enough but not gives the heeby geebies for life creepy and that was because of the campy scenarios of her eating gold. Bryan Cranston as Zordon was a limited role but definitely cool. Bill Hader as Alpha 5 was the obvious comic relief that helped create a light hearted training montage. After all their training it was a mere suplex that can save the world. Who knew?

With all due respect Power Rangers was a fun movie that knew how to balance the books so it featured a little bit of everything. Morphin Time looked dope, as did the Mechs before and during the fight. It started off well and ended well with minor characterization and dialogue issues as mentioned above. However this had an X-Men vibe to it in many ways and hopefully when there is more the writers capitalize on the small issues that may have caused older audience members like myself to be wary of viewing.

That being said there is no doubt in my mind that this film is worth recommending and worth seeing in theatres for any nostalgic 90’s nerd looking for new versions of their beloved Power Rangers.